This is part 2 of a 2-part interview.
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Summary:
You’ve probably learned by now that your physical well-being, or lack of it, is profoundly affected by what goes on in your mind and emotions. That’s not to say that your pain and suffering are “all in your head”. It reflects the reality that your mind and body are so profoundly interconnected that it probably makes sense to have one word that includes both of them. Because we can’t really find a place where one ends and the other begins. Common sense and most cultural wisdom support that idea, which is increasingly confirmed by scientific study. One of my patients, Leah, had been suffering from pain in several parts of her body for years. She had diagnoses of osteoarthritis, tendinitis, and fibromyalgia and was really suffering. She had done lots of conventional medical pain treatment with only temporary and partial benefits.Did You Know:
- You can receive updates about new content and learning opportunities for transforming pain and suffering, by joining Dr. Shiller’s email community here: drshillerupdates.com
- Dr. Shiller is available for telemedicine consultation worldwide regarding chronic pain, fibromyalgia, autoimmune disease, fatigue, and stress-related illness. Contact the office or schedule a consultation at www.drshiller.com
- Dr. Shiller gives regular free mind-body training sessions on zoom. Learn practical tools for transforming suffering, and reducing stress and inflammation. You can get the schedule and register at www.mindbodygroove.com
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How To Heal Emotional Pain From Trauma, Narcissist Abuse, and Toxic Shame: Part 1
Summary:
You’ve probably learned by now that your physical well-being, or lack of it, is profoundly affected by what goes on in your mind and emotions. That’s not to say that your pain and suffering are “all in your head”. It reflects the reality that your mind and body are so profoundly interconnected that it probably makes sense to have one word that includes both of them. Because we can’t really find a place where one ends and the other begins. Common sense and most cultural wisdom support that idea, which is increasingly confirmed by scientific study. One of my patients, Leah, had been suffering from pain in several parts of her body for years. She had diagnoses of osteoarthritis, tendinitis, and fibromyalgia and was really suffering. She had done lots of conventional medical pain treatment with only temporary and partial benefit.We broke the conversation into two parts because there was so much to say. Click here to see the second part of this interview.
Did You Know:
- Dr. Shiller gives regular free mind-body training sessions on zoom. Learn practical tools for transforming suffering, and reducing stress and inflammation. You can get the schedule and register at www.mindbodygroove.com
- You can receive updates about new content and learning opportunities for transforming pain and suffering, by joining Dr. Shiller’s email community here: drshillerupdates.com
- Dr. Shiller is available for telemedicine consultation worldwide regarding chronic pain, fibromyalgia, autoimmune disease, fatigue, and stress-related illness. Contact the office or schedule a consultation at www.drshiller.com
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Pain and Suffering. How To Get Off The Mindbody Rollercoaster
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Did You Know:
- You can receive updates about new content and learning opportunities for transforming pain and suffering, by joining Dr Shiller’s email community here: drshillerupdates.com
- Dr Shiller is available for telemedicine consultation worldwide regarding chronic pain, fibromyalgia, autoimmune disease, fatigue, and stress-related illness. Contact the office or schedule a consultation at www.drshiller.com
- Dr Shiller gives regular free mind-body training sessions on zoom. Learn practical tools for transforming suffering, reducing stress and inflammation. You can get the schedule and register at www.mindbodygroove.com
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Hi, it is Dr. Shiller here. Today I want to speak in response to a comment that I recently got from one of the people in one of my classes, and I hear this comment quite a bit. It is very relevant for a lot of people, and this is someone who was doing some meditation training, some mind body skills development. Someone who is dealing with chronic pain and some other medical challenges and social challenges. Some really hard stuff going on for her, and her comment was like this: “Hey, Doc. During the meditation, I get to this really quiet sweet space, especially the things we do that are about opening up our hearts and like giving, and I really get to a great place and my pain is gone. And it can be gone for hours, it can be gone until the next day. It is amazing. I really appreciate this. But, and here is the kicker, right? But you know, I go back out into life, whether it is the same day or the next day, and something happens. And then suddenly, it is like, I never even did the meditation, I am in this place of distress in my mind and my emotions, my pain comes back. You know, I am starting to feel like I am just kind of a phony. Like, I am imagining it, like what is really going on here? I can relate so much to the question, personally, when I was in medical school and in residency, and I was first starting to work with contemplative practice. I could very much relate to what this person is talking about, that the experience, the practice itself was deep and beautiful, and seems so transformative. Like, “Oh, my gosh, the world is going to be completely different now”. Then, you know, whatever amount of time later, it is like, boom! Getting sucked back in the same old stuff, the tension, the anxiety, I was having. Like neck pain and back pain and things like that. And so, it was really this sense of like, okay, was that real? Is this just a bunch of phoniness, like, what is really going on? And what I want to say is that it is real. The experience of dropping into quiet in your mind, your emotions, in your body, generates biology, that is healing. It generates mental emotional patterns that are healing, and very pleasant. It is real, it is reality. The issue is that you also have other aspects of your being, and your history, and your habits. There can very much be a dance between those two, I am going to call that dance and not tension, because to my eyes at this point, 20 years later, the dance is where the real artistry and the real healing and creativity of life comes in. The first principle I want to share is that wherever your mind goes, there you are. And this is something that has been said by a lot of wise people over the years, including the Baal Shem Tov and Rabbi Nachman and in some of the sages of the Torah tradition. That wherever you put your consciousness, your conscious intention, or your unconscious intention, where your mind is, that is, what is generating your, a lot of your physiology. That is what is feeding into the thoughts, you are having, the emotions that are coming up. Yes, the bodily responses you are having, together with those thoughts and emotions. So, the art and the work is really a question of starting to become aware of that. A lot of my students who are progressing further along, are starting to be aware of that, right? They start with the meditation that brings them the quiet to go, wow, this is amazing. Then they start to notice, oh, I keep thinking about that guy. Or I keep thinking about this experience or whenever I see this person, it brings on a sort of negative mind, emotion state. So, what do you do about that? Well, you start to work with it. It is an aspect of self-learning, it is reflective learning, to start to see those patterns. When you start to see those patterns, you start to become more mindful. You start to actually develop a kind of awareness that is not judgmental. You see that maybe, okay, I am self-judging, or self-doubting, or there is self-blame or even self-hatred. Then you start to actually say, wait, no, I do not want to live from that place. It is a little bit of an active will, just to decide that. Then it is an act of awareness and something transformative that happens when you just start letting your heart receive it, and be aware of it. If you were to see a little kid who is misbehaving, and they are a little kid, they are doing what little kids do. And if you are not too close to the issue, you kind of recognize and you are like, Yeah, and you can like, give that kid some support. Like, “Hey, come on over here. Listen, you know, I care about you. I love you. I see you doing that thing that is making a mess. You start to do that with yourself, and it can be transformative, because what happens is you develop the skill of dropping into a quiet place that just feels good and brings on the biochemistry and neurobiology of healing. Then you also develop this presence of mind, this mindfulness, this compassionate, discerning awareness. That lets you see your habits of going to the negative places, and lets you start to make more conscious choices. Rather than just going with the habit. Because habits, most of them we developed from back then, when we were not so conscious. A lot of your worst habits, I can guarantee you came from a place of you actually taking care of yourself. When you start to actually notice, wow, the reason I am reacting with anger is because back when this happened, I was scared, I was scared, I did not want it to happen again. So, I am angry, because I am trying to protect myself, and you start to see that kind of stuff. And that is the process. That is the work of inner healing. I want to bring another aspect to this from the Torah tradition. And you know, the inner tradition of Torah brings this notion that every human being has got what we call an animal soul and a divine soul. Your animal soul is really responsible for self-protection, self-preservation, reproduction, pleasure; it is your physical embodied self with all of the urges, and aversions that you have. A lot of that is very conditioned, a lot of it is instinctual, a lot of it is cultural, it is stuff that we just are. Then we have got this godly soul, it is a divine soul. It is the part of us that as we grow and mature, we start to naturally have a sense of desire or urge, to be generous, to be giving, to include other people in our world, to care, to actually want to make a positive difference. Those are aspects of our godly soul. Those are aspects of your elevated divine soul. In that tradition, the work of growth, the work of healing, the work of returning to our highest potential, is to come in contact with that elevated divine soul. To understand it, taste it, know it, become familiar with it, start to identify with it, and bring it with compassion, with intelligence to that animal soul. The metaphor that often gets broad is like, if you are a person who rides horses, you know that the horse needs care, the horse needs to be brushed and cleaned, the feet need to be protected, the horse needs good food, shelter and protection from bad weather. If you want to be a good horse person, you need to take care of the horse. But you also need to ride the horse, and you need to direct the horse where you want to go. That is what horsemanship or horsewomanship is really about. It is actually having the awareness and compassion for the animal, and actually having a clear connection to your own higher aspiration, your own higher purpose, your potential of who you are. I invite you to really reflect on that metaphor, reflect on the different aspects of your own experience, that you might consider your animal bodily, embodied soul. Rather than judging them as bad, just realizing that they are part of who you are, and part of what you can direct and learn to develop mastery over in your path of self-healing, of self-actualization, of being your most beautiful, powerful self in the world. You are not a phony, you are someone who is learning to pay attention. You are someone who is learning that when you give your mind to matters of the divine soul, of purpose, of potential, of possibility of expansiveness, of connection, there is a certain physiology that is supported by that, and that comes out of that. When you give your mind to the potentially more protective, negative, challenged aspects of the animal soul, you may experience negativity. But gradually over time, you learned to let your divine soul be the rider of the horse. In summary, what most people say who stick with the practice and stay true to it over time is that as you get familiar with it, as you develop a sense of greater self-acceptance, and you work through some of the challenges of relating to those more difficult parts of self, then the difference is less glaring, the extremes are less extreme and you develop a somewhat smoother pathway. We all have times of elevation and times when we fall. And what happens over time is the decline, the fall becomes for the sake of rising, and according to the Hasidic tradition, every time you have a fall, every time you slip into a negative pattern, every time you meet those difficult parts of self that are such troublemakers, it is really happening for the sake of them being elevated by your own divine soul and awareness. There is really a path here of transformation that is available to you if you are sincere and dedicated and willing to develop awareness, develop the skill of self-regulation and quieting, develop mindfulness and compassion that the bumps are less strong, you spend more time in a place of relative, Hey, it is okay. I am with it, I have got this, things are going to be alright. And you spend less time cycling into the really heavy negative patterns. It takes time, it takes effort. This is real work, but it is also incredibly fruitful and valuable, because it not only influences the process of bodily healing, it leads you to excel, a sense of self and self-expression that is ever more beautiful and evermore connected to doing good things in the world and being the kind of person you want to be. I hope this has been useful. Feel free to leave any comments or send me comments or questions by email if you want. And tune in again. Look forward to being in touch.Join my email community and get notified about new content and transformative self-healing skills.
Fibromyalgia and Fatigue. Four Reasons Why You Flare Up and Can’t Make Progress
Summary:
One of my readers writes:
“Hey Doc, I’ve been doing all the right things to improve my fitness. Pacing myself. Accepting my low threshold and working within it with lighter weights and shorter workouts. I’ve progressed, but I’m stuck and not able to increase my exercise tolerance enough. Why is that happening?”
In the video, I dive into some of the reasons why fibromyalgia and chronic pain can be so limiting in terms of activity. Sometimes there are things you can do to break through the barrier and build strength, endurance, and ability to function.
Check it out and let me know what you think.
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- https://www.drshiller.com/why-does-chronic-pain-persist/
Full Transcript:
Hey, it is Dr. Shiller. Today, I want to talk in follow-up to a previous video in which I was discussing the suffering cycle and the disability cycle in chronic pain and chronic illness, especially fibromyalgia and related conditions, and how a person can understand that and start to break those cycles. And I got a very interesting response from one of my readers, one of the watchers, and I want to read you some of it, because you might have similar questions.
She writes, “Doc, to be honest, I have made a lot of improvements, but I never got to a place of really big improvement. I have tried gradually building my exercise. I have done behavioral modifications to pace myself. I have tried to stay within my exercise threshold. I have done things to tweak a slightly low thyroid. I do not have a positive ANA or a high inflammation marker, but I continued to get these really bad flare ups of fatigue and discomfort. My pain is much better, but the fatigue and the post exercise, just malaise and feeling horrible keep catching up with me. What do I do about that?
It is such a great question, because whether it is chronic pain, or fibromyalgia, or chronic fatigue syndrome, ME, as we call it, these are complex processes. And there are a few different things that can be going on, and I would say there are really like, four or five reasons why it can be hard to break through and actually build that activity tolerance threshold, because that is really the issue here. For someone who wants to either prevent getting more disability, disabled, or someone who wants to kind of climb out of that hole of disability and get more active, what stands in the way?
The first thing we talked about in that first video is that the threshold gets lowered, right? Like everybody has a threshold, within which we can actually be active physically without damaging ourselves. So, I can run two or three kilometers, a mile or two or three, and I can feel okay with that, but if I try to run a marathon, I would be wrecked for days, and maybe a week or longer, I might even get injured.
Everyone’s body, you included, you have a certain threshold of how much energy your cells can put out, how much metabolism your muscles can do, and above that, what happens is it overloads the system and creates a kind of state of biochemical toxicity and inflammation and acidosis. And if you are susceptible, because you have a low threshold, which is expressed in fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, then that happens at much lower levels of exertion, and so you go over that threshold and suddenly this vicious cycle happens, which can increase inflammation, increase stress hormones, increase a whole bunch of different changes that create a flare, and so the question is, how do you work with that?
This particular person talked about, is trying to stay within threshold and doing shorter workouts with less weight, and she made a certain amount of progress, but did not really elevate her threshold, like she really wanted to. What else could be going on? One of the things is that we know that there are hormonal and immune dysregulation that happened.
We know that sometimes there are aspects of biochemical toxicity. Sometimes there are aspects of dysfunction of the mitochondria, which are your cellular energy producing organs. And all of these things are very much integrated, your degree of inflammation, your mitochondrial function, your biochemical stress, or oxidative stress, are all intertwined with each other, and when you are in a susceptible place, any one of those going up too high, can she kind of create a little vicious cycle, stuff like low grade infection feeds into that, hormonal dysfunction, whether it is your thyroid hormone, your adrenal hormones, or your sex hormones can also make you susceptible.
If you have ongoing toxicity to heavy metals or environmental pollutants, where you have got low-grade inflammation in your body from some kind of liver toxicity thing, that also makes your system more susceptible. So those things are incredibly important to address. That is a huge topic. I am trying to cover that right now. Although in future videos, I sure hope to God willing.
The last aspect that I want to bring up is really the stress response of the body. Because as we know, we already talked about it, that the stress response, the fight-flight-freeze response, which is meant to be kind of modulated by a relaxation response is intimately connected with that mitochondrial function or hormonal immune axis. They are all intimately connected, because your stress response is how your body copes, and there has been all sorts of research showing that when a person has a prolonged overactive stress response, or an acute stress response, it shifts immune function, it can shift hormonal function, it can shift mitochondrial function.
One of the ironic weird things about physical exercise is that it is a stressor, right? Like we know that to be true. You know, there is acute exercise, there is long-term exercise. But there has been tons of research that is showing that when you do exercise, your stress hormones go up, your autonomic system activates a stress response, because it is a get up and go.
The question is, when you are doing physical exercise, are you activating too much of a stress response? So, all those other biochemical things are really important. But what is going on in the stress relaxation response, is the autonomic nervous system. Which consists of that stress response and relaxation response. Is it kind of on the edge and so out of balance, that you do a little bit of exercise, and boom, you kick into a high stress state that flips off the mitochondrial function and your hormonal and so on and so on.
It is possible, it is possible, and that is why personally, from my point of view, when people are dealing with low threshold states like fibro and chronic fatigue, it can be so useful to do what you could call mindful exercise.
Mindful exercise means exercise with awareness, and it means exercise that is deeply relaxing. So, rather than going to the gym and pumping weights, even if they are small weights, we are getting on the treadmill, or doing the stair stepper, even if it is a low volume, low intensity, those can be stressors. And so, what you really might want to consider is doing exercise, whether it is a very gentle yoga, Feldenkrais awareness through motion, movement, Tai Chi, Chi Gong, things that are really meditative, with a lot of awareness, where the physical activity is not about exertion, the physical activity is about mobilization, it is about relaxation. It is about waking up your body’s natural ability to move, to breathe, to reduce co-contraction and resistance that you might have in your neuromuscular system, and so, it is a really good place to start if mainly what you have been doing has been typical gym exercise, without awareness, without relaxation, because gym exercise without awareness and relaxation can be a stressor, mindful exercise can be done in a relaxing way.
Let us also get clear, right? A lot of people say, “Well, I tried to do yoga,” but then you find out what kind of yoga and it is more the aggressive kind. There are yoga practices that are really forceful, Ashtanga and Iyengar, you know, other things that, you know, I forgot, Vikram, that can be fairly aggressive. And that is not what I am talking about here. I am talking about gentle Hatha Yoga, where it is about awareness. It is about gradually coming into a soft pose, not pushing too hard. Lots of breath, lots of awareness, meeting the edge and just relaxing into it. So, it is a different way of moving. And it could be what will help you get started and help you start to build your mobility, your flexibility, your strength, your body awareness, and what you need to progress to higher levels of physical activity.
I hope that is interesting and helpful. I am very grateful for your comments or questions. Feel free to shoot those to me either where you are finding this video, or through an email.
Thanks for watching, and looking forward to seeing you.
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Fibromyalgia is Tough. Why is Disability Optional? Part B
This is part B of a two part video. Please watch part A first.
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Summary:
You learned in part A of this series why the pain system gets sensitized in fibromyalgia and chronic pain, and what creates suffering, and why it can be so disabling. Click here to see part A if you missed it or want to review.. In this video (part B), you’ll learn some of the main things that you can do to reduce suffering, and break the “fear-avoidance-disability cycle” that otherwise can suck your life down the drain. This isn’t easy work. But have hope. There are things you can do to help yourself. Please let me know what you think by sending an email or commenting on this post.Did You Know:
You can receive updates about new content and learning opportunities for transforming pain and suffering, by joining Dr Shiller’s email community here: drshillerupdates.com Dr Shiller gives regular free mind-body training sessions on zoom. You can get the schedule and register at www.mindbodygroove.comRelated Posts:
- How to unlearn the mind-body patterns that create chronic pain and illness.
- Why Does Chronic Pain Happen? Empower Your Healing.
- Life-changing stuff most doctors don’t tell you about fibromyalgia, chronic pain, and chronic illness.
- LDN can be great. But here’s why it is not a miracle cure for pain, fatigue, and fibromyalgia.
Full Transcript:
Hi, Dr. Shiller here. We are continuing with part II of fibromyalgia and chronic pain. Why are they so disabling and what can you do about it? In part I, we looked at the whole variety of different metabolic and mind-body and sort of mechanical structural factors that can give rise to the disability and really loss of life and function that happens when people have chronic pain, especially fibromyalgia. In this part, we are going to talk about what you can do about it. I encourage you to watch part I if you have not seen it yet. So, look for that link connected to this video. I am going to bring back up the slide we ended with, let us look at that. So, just summing up, like you know that talk in 30 seconds that there are metabolic mind-body and sort of movement or motor mechanical system aspects to this whole process that the biology that gives rise to central sensitization is influenced by the mind-body variables, like your beliefs, emotions, and thoughts, and especially autonomic imbalance. Autonomic imbalance is that over-activity of the stress response that can happen with chronic pain and chronic illness. Fear avoidance is that, I do not want to do stuff because it hurts, because you are not active, and you get inactive, then your body gets weak and stiff, and you get disabled, and because you are not moving, that feeds into all of the physiologic and mind-body variables, and the place where you actually have therapeutic leverage is to actually work on these things, right? I am not going to talk about the metabolic part, those are incredibly important. I talk about those in other talks. So, have a look for that stuff. I am going to focus today on the mind-body stuff and the motor mechanical stuff, and summing up all of this, the things that we really can address with the right kind of mind-body and movement system care are really the autonomic imbalance, fear avoidance, and inactivity, and the rest that flows out of addressing those things. So, let us just talk about a few principles or interventions, and I am going to share the big picture, the top-level stuff. Every one of these big picture top-level things are things you can drill down to and learn more, and I will do that in other talks. I am really interested in your feedback, what you want to hear more about. So, feel free to respond in the comments as I am going through about what you need to hear more about or send an email or whatever it is, reach out to my office and let me know. The whole point of this content is for you, to help you, to empower you. So, let us go forward with this, okay. Other videos about metabolic and the mind-body stuff. There is a number of different steps to mind-body healing, and there is mind-body tools that you can learn to shift your physiology and especially your autonomic imbalance as well as the kind of fear avoidance thing and to heal your beliefs, emotions, and thoughts, and it is incredibly transformative because you stop and unwind these cycles that give rise to the suffering and the disability of fibromyalgia and chronic pain. Self-regulation is the foundation. Self-regulation means tools, like simple breathing and focusing techniques that actually shift your neurobiology and your biochemistry, stimulate the vagus nerve, the vagus nerve is this big nerve that comes out of your brain stem, serves your entire intestinal tract, and it is anti-inflammatory when you stimulate your vagus by going into a deep relaxation, it slows down inflammation. When you are stressed out, aggravated, when you have autonomic imbalance towards sympathetic, your vagal nerve is shut down, and it is a pro-inflammatory state, and that is why we got so much research showing that an overactive stress response is pro-inflammatory and that various mind-body techniques modulate the immune system in a positive way and help it function more effectively. There are various techniques of self-regulation, mindset and beliefs, where you put your mind is where you are going to go. It is like a person driving one of those race cars in the Monaco grand prix or wherever, where if they look at the guardrail or the tree, you are going run into the tree, and if you look for the open space, you are going to drive into the open space. Another way to think about it is that if you are focusing on negative stuff in your life, the pain, the suffering, the lack, the loss, the person who hurt you, the blame, the guilt, all of that kind of stuff, you are going to generate negativity, and it is going to cause more suffering for you, for you. You are going to suffer more because of what you think about, and again this is not blame and shame. This is just inviting you to start seeing that if you focus on the positive stuff and you start to give your mind over to the good things that you can do to help yourself, then you are going to move in that direction. It is much harder to do than it is to talk about it. So, there is a lot more to learn about this, but it is a huge piece, and I encourage you to start thinking about it. Mindfulness could also be described as compassionate present moment awareness. Most of us are used to thinking in an analytical judgmental, how can I fix this or change it mode, we are doing? How can I do it better? And we are all conditioned for that. We get especially conditioned for that when we are under stress and we are suffering, because we want a solution, we want to fix it. Mindfulness is turning that upside down, it is shifting into a place of being present and compassionate, and when you talk about it, when you read about it might make sense or not make sense, but either way, you are not doing it. Doing it is an experience, you need to practice it, you need to learn it, and what I suggest is you find a guide, whether it is, you know, on the internet with or mind space or headspace or apps, okay that is a good start, but find a teacher, find someone who can help you learn it, because it is transformative, and I can tell you from my own experience and seeing so many people who like thought about it, they read all the books. I know mindfulness, no. Because they get into the training and they start to do it, and okay if things are challenging and hard and then suddenly, “oh my gosh,” like they have a realization, they have an experience that shifts everything. I did not know that could happen. I did not know I could feel that way. I did not know I could have that much free choice about my life. You got to practice it, to get there. Everyone can do it to a certain extent, go for it, okay. Next thing, body awareness. I work with a lot of people who think good thoughts, they are prayerful, they are spiritual, they are religious, they are doing good things, thinking good thoughts, but meanwhile their body is in alarm reaction because of their trauma, because of their pain, because of their disease. It is completely different when you take the good thoughts, the positive, calm, happy mindful mind and you bring it to your bodily experience, and you start to send up a message of safety to your body, you start to bathe your cells in the biology and neurobiology and neurochemistry of safety and positivity, transformative. Cultivating positive emotion, healing emotion, healing trauma. We know that people who have had adverse childhood experiences get more illness, they get more chronic disease, it is a complex phenomenon, it does not mean it is all in your head, but what it does mean is that emotional trauma, physical trauma shift your physiology, and there are tools that you can learn to shift it back into a healthy state. These are a collection of mind-body tools that can be transformative, and all of these are things to drill down to. Every one of these mind-body tools that I have listed here are things that you can learn to actually develop skill and cultivate, and once you do that, once you start to build that skill, it is yours. It is not something you have to go back to every week to your therapist or your treatment person. You have got tools, you have got transformative tools, that can help you break a fibromyalgia flare, that can help you find your way out when something triggers you, that can help you change your physiology and reverse those vicious cycles that give rise to the suffering and the fear avoidance, inactivity, and the disability. Okay, let us get into the motor mechanical, the movement piece of this. One aspect of this is bodywork, and there is two main kinds of bodywork. There is the hands-on direct stuff, where a person is pushing and prodding and doing stuff to move, to crack and crunch and move you, that can be great for some people. In my experience, it is not so great with people with fibromyalgia, because it tends to flare you up. There is another kind of manual bodywork techniques that you could describe as indirect, they are very gentle, they are more about consciousness and finding the freedom in the tissue and your body, your fascia, your tissue unwinds and moves in response to that, and that can be profoundly transformative. You can find that from a good osteopath, from a good manually trained physical/occupational therapist, some very good massage therapists, and some chiropractors, but you want to ask if they have worked a lot with people who have chronic pain and fibromyalgia, if they know indirect gentle techniques to release tissue, to release neuromuscular imbalances and reflexes that are counterproductive. Okay, and then there is stuff you can do for yourself. There is movement arts, and my emphasis, my bias is towards what you might call meditative or mindful movement arts, because exercise can hurt. If you just go out there and treat your body like it is a peanut piece of meat and you get on the treadmill and just go, go, go for 20 minutes, you are going to go above your threshold, and you are going to make yourself worse, and you probably have had that experience with some well-intentioned physical therapist, exercise therapist, or family member who said just get up and go, go do it. But what happens when you get up and go is you activate your stress response, you activate counterproductive reflexes, you go over your threshold, and you create a crisis in your cellular physiology, and you actually feed into this cycle, and you get a fibromyalgia flare, and that is not good for anybody, and maybe you have been there, done that, and maybe you never want to move again and maybe you are thinking who is this guy telling me I should move, forget about that. I get that, I have heard that from a lot of people, but when they started to learn to do a meditative quiet kind of motion and movement that respects the limitations of your body, that respects the low threshold, that actually lets you drop your calm, happy awareness into the body, and you know where you can move. You develop your intuition of your own body’s capability, and you start to move with that intuition and you build, you open up your envelope, you gradually learn to develop more flexibility, more strength, more endurance, and over time, you are climbing out of that hole of disability, and that happens through meditative movement, and so whether it is Feldenkrais or yoga or Tai Chi Qigong, Pilates, or other things that somebody may have invented. Find someone who is really good at it, find someone who has got a lot of experience and a lot of compassion and a lot of humility, who is willing to meet you where you are at and be your guide. Let them teach you and let yourself learn, let your inner wisdom grow, so that you know how to work with your own body, and over time, you are going to heal, you are going to feel better. You may need to work on this for the rest of your life to stay healthy, but you are going to be able to start doing only stuff that is meaningful for you. You are going to be able to get back to stuff that matters. It might not be like you were when you were 24 or 36, it might be like you are now, and then you build from there. So, you restart and you restart and you grow and you heal. Okay, so summing up. Fibromyalgia, chronic pain, there is a spiral of lots of different factors that lead to disability and disuse, and there is a process for preventing and reversing that, it has to do with addressing your metabolic biochemical system, to get the underlying cause of the symptoms. It has to get to do with your mind-body system, addressing your thoughts, your beliefs, your emotions, and addressing most importantly that autonomic imbalance, it is about learning how to move again. This is a healing path, nobody can do it for you, it is your healing path and it is unique to you. I really encourage you to find your guides, find the people who can help you address those three aspects of this situation or maybe some people can address more than one for you, but you need to start walking down that road, that healing path, which is yours, you find your guides, you let them teach you, you become an expert in yourself, and with time, what is going to happen is you are going to become the hero of your own story, because no one else is your hero. They are your guides, you are the hero, you are the one who is making the journey, you are in a place where you are stuck, where you are feeling horrible or you are terrified that you are going to get worse, and what is on the other end of your journey is, I feel empowered, I feel capable, I feel stronger, I know what I need to do. I might not be perfect, I might have setbacks, but I know how to deal with the setbacks and what you are going to do is learn to be a fuller self. You are going to learn to reconnect to purpose, to do stuff that you care about, to start feeling better about life again. So, my work is dedicated to helping you learn and grow in that way. I want to hear about how you like this video, if it is good for you, let me know, leave feedback in the comments or send me an email, sign up for my email community, so you can get updates about when I produce more content, and I am here and at your service. Thanks for watching.Join my email community and get notified about new content and transformative self-healing skills.
Fibromyalgia is Tough. Why is Disability Optional? Part A
Summary:
In fibromyalgia, your pain is amplified. There are known biological changes that can contribute to the increased pain. Most of those changes can be helped if you know what to do. Suffering is a more complex thing. Suffering happens where pain meets your thoughts, beliefs, and emotions. There are simple tools that you can learn to shift your experience of pain and suffering. So you can be more comfortable, happier, and live better. Disability is an even more complex process. You have choices about how to mobilize your body-mind’s healing responses.Did You Know:
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- Why Does Chronic Pain Happen? Empower Your Healing.
- Life-changing stuff most doctors don’t tell you about fibromyalgia, chronic pain, and chronic illness.
- LDN can be great. But here’s why it is not a miracle cure for pain, fatigue, and fibromyalgia.
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Hey! It is Dr. Shiller, and I am going to speak with you today about fibromyalgia and disability. What I am going to say goes beyond just fibromyalgia. We are going to be talking about principles that are relevant to also chronic fatigue and chronic inflammatory illness to chronic pain problems in general, and this question that comes up over and over that eats at people is like what is this fibromyalgia thing? Is it a progressive disease that is going to eat up my body and destroy me like some kind of cancer or autoimmune thing? Like why does it have to be disabling? Am I going to get disabled? Am I going to lose all of my function and lose all of my self-respect and swirl down some sort of whirlpool into a black hole? Like what is going to happen to me? And the encouraging answer I want to give you is that it depends, that there are actually lots of places where you have an option and you have the potential power to shift the process, and what I am going to do in this talk is unpack, why does disability happen in fibromyalgia and what you can do about it? Because there is a lot of hope. So, check it out, listen, and hopefully this is useful for you. I am going to use some slides, because I am going to share a lot of information, and I want to give you visuals on it, okay? First thing we know is pain. Pain is the core thing that starts to bother so many people with fibromyalgia and one of the things that even the medical experts agree on is that there is central sensitization, and what does that mean? It means that the pain processing system is turned up, and this is a picture from Scientific America and basically you have a pain processing system that is the nerves from your say your hand, like if you have injured your hand, like in this diagram, and that signal goes up the nerves to the spinal cord and then through the brain to the parts of the brain, that says, “aah, my hand hurts.” and the part of your brain that gives you that like emotional angst a person often gets when they have pain, and the key thing that you need to know, listen up, is that your pain processing system is like an amplifier. There are several steps where the signal is transferred and processed by a lot of different factors, and that can turn things up like an amplifier, so that things that should not hurt, hurt, and if you have fibromyalgia, you probably recognize that experience where things hurt you that did not used to hurt you. Modern medicine does not really agree on a consensus about why central sensitization happens even though we know a lot of factors that cause it. We know a lot of different variables that can create hyper-extensive excitability and inflammation actually in the brain and activation of certain cellular and biological processes that turn up sensitivity of the brain, and these are some of them. We are not going to spend too much time on all of this and do not get hung up on it, but stuff that you may have already heard about it, you may have been looking into like inflammation and biochemical or oxidative stress, loss of cellular energy, hormonal changes, dysfunction in the biome or the gut motility or the gut lining, the leaky gut phenomenon in certain toxicity states, and then there is something called autonomic imbalance, and that is when that stress response is overactive compared to the relaxation response. Look into this if you have not heard of it before, but the key factor is that you have a system within your brain and spinal cord that touches every bit of your body, it is your autonomic nervous system, and it balances, it biases your energy allocation. Am I in get up and go fight flight freeze or am I in relax, rest, digest, assimilate nutrients, heal, sleep? They are two very different sets of processes and every part of you is involved in them, and one of the common things underlying a lot of pain, fatigue, and chronic illnesses is autonomic imbalance, and that is a whole other topic. Look for more information from me or other people about that. It is part of what drives the wheel of all these different changes that give rise to central sensitization and give rise to pain sensitization, and so autonomic balance is also an outcome of pain. When something hurts, like it creates that, that sense of it is not okay, that sense of loss of safety and that feeds into the process. So, just showing for the diagram, that it is a vicious cycle, where pain leads to autonomic imbalance, which leads to all of these processes moving forward and worsening of the process. Let us just think about pain for a second, because pain and suffering are profoundly interconnected, but they are not identical. Suffering and pain, the way a person experiences it are very subjective, they are very conditioned, they are very cultural. There are a lot of different things that affect how much a person suffers when they have pain, and that tends to be in the area of your beliefs and your emotional responses and your thoughts that you have about it, and so you know this is just the piece we already saw about all these sort of cellular and biochemical changes that affect pain sensitization, but then there is the interaction with the beliefs, the emotions, and thoughts, and what I am suggesting to you to start considering is that your suffering is an integration of all of these factors, it is the pain itself, and it is the way your body and mind and emotions respond to that pain, and of course as I am sure you have experienced autonomic imbalance is part of that too, because when you are suffering, when you are suffering, what you are doing, what happens is your being feels distress, it feels danger, and your stress response tends to be activated, and that feeds into all the physiologic changes like we talked about, it feeds into central sensitization, and it feeds into your beliefs and emotions and thoughts, because when we are stressed out, it changes the way we receive the world. If you are living in a reality where you are stressed out a lot of the time, that us feeding the disease process. We are going to talk more about this, but that is one of the places where you potentially have leverage. Okay, let is keep moving. I just want to point out that you could kind of separate and say, look, there is kind of metabolic process, it is just a label we are giving it for ease of understanding, that all these biological processes that we talked about that give rise to central sensitization, they are kind of on the level of metabolism and biochemistry, they are in your cells, they are in your organs, your endocrine system, and then there is your mind-body system, your beliefs, your thoughts, your emotions, right? And your autonomic balance and your central sensitization is kind of in between those two, because both of them influence it quite a bit, your metabolic biochemical state, nutrition, a lot of things like that, and your mind-body state. Let us take this to the next step, right, because there is this principle, there is a principle called fear avoidance that every good pain practitioner understands, because basically when a person is afraid of their pain, they do not want to move, and it hurts when you move. So, you do not want to move, and it is the most natural normal thing in the world, and there is no shame, and there is no blame, it is just the reality that when things hurt, you naturally do not want to move, and your reflexes know that. If I put my hand on a hot fire, I guard it, I pull it back, it is a protective reflex, and your whole system is organized around protective reflexes, and so if your autonomic system is on fire and you have autonomic imbalance, your protective avoidant reflexes are going to be even more active, but the problem is when that becomes systemic and when it hurts so you do not move, and you get, I am sorry, I am just pointing out here, sorry that autonomic imbalance thing is integrated with everything, but the main thing here to think about is that when all this stuff is happening and you respond to that natural tendency of fear avoidance by not being active, by not moving, you get inactive, your muscles and your tissues get weaker, you become stiff, and that is when disability happens. Disability is a process that happens in response to the way your body and mind are reacting and responding to pain, and it is not your fault, right? A lot of this is things that just creep up on you, and before you know it, you cannot do stuff you used to do, and the horrible thing that I have heard from so many people as they get less and less active and more and more disabled is like, well, I cannot take care of my kids, I cannot do my job, what happened to me? Who am I? This is not me, and your sense of self, your beliefs, your emotional state becomes even more out of balance, and it fits into the vicious cycles, and so it is disability cycle, and every good pain clinic knows this, which is part of why they have behavioral medicine people working together with the pain doctors, working together with the physical therapists and other therapists, because this is a holistic whole person process, and the better you understand this, the better off you will be. Let us just kind of follow this through because your movement system of your body, your muscles, your nerves. When you are physically active, you change your physiology for the better. Physical activity is one of the most helpful things you can do, it changes a lot of these metabolic processes, and so when you are inactive and becoming disabled, you are feeding into the underlying physiology that gives rise to pain sensitization. By being inactive, you are generating more inflammation and oxidative stress, potential toxic metabolites, hormonal changes, gut dysfunction, it feeds into the whole process. This is not about blame and shame, this is about opportunity, this is about understanding all these different factors and unpacking them. So, you can start to see what is relevant for you, so that you can start to make conscious choices to help yourself heal, to help unwind all of this. Every one of the changes that I put on this slide; all of these different things are biological, mental emotional, physiological processes that you have potential choice over. They all can be slowed, stopped, or even reversed depending on various lifestyle or other choices that you make, and so I am sharing all this so you can start to make those choices. The next part of this talk is really to talk about what we can do about it. I am going to pause and stop here, because we have already been at this for about 10 minutes. I am going to split this into part A and B. So, we just did as part A. Part B will be coming, look for that, and we will talk in part B about what do you really do about it. You know there is a healing process, and that healing process is addressing the metabolic, the mind-body, and the motor or mechanical parts of this. so, that is what we will do in part B. I hope you will tune in for that. I hope this has been interesting to you. My work is dedicated to helping you learn and grow in that way. I want to hear about how you like this video. If it is good for you, let me know, leave feedback in the comments or send me an email, sign up for my email community, so you can get updates about when I produce more content, and I am here and at at your service. Thanks for watching.Join my email community and get notified about new content and transformative self-healing skills.
Dr Shiller’s Integrative Approach to Rehabilitation and Recovery after Trauma, Pain, Surgery, or Serious Illness
Summary:
Recovery from trauma, surgery and catastrophic illness is a complex and multifactorial process. Conventional rehabilitation programs are very helpful. But they stop short of some of the important methods of enhancing healing. You have natural healing intelligence in the complexity of your mind-body system. It’s important to consider the interaction of all your body systems, which can either help you heal, or obstruct the healing process. There are things you can do to remove obstacles to healing, and stimulate your inner healer.Some of the processes that can block or impair your recovery include:
- chronic activation of the stress response due to trauma, pain, sleep loss, inflammation
- your gut-brain-immune system can drive inflammation, brain dysfunction, insomnia, and worsen pain
- changes in soft tissues and neuromuscular reflexes can worsen pain and impair functional recovery
These are things you can do to enhance healing:
- optimize your mindbody relationships and turn off the chronic stress response
- wise use of manual physical treatments that normalize the stress response, tissue function, and neuromuscular reflexes.
- attention to nutrition and GI health can enhance the biochemistry of your tissues to enable your system to heal more quickly.
Optimal recovery depends on your motivation, and mobilizing the healing responses of your body.
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Dr Shiller’s Integrative Approach to Fibromyalgia
Summary:
- Pain processing is more sensitive in the spinal cord and brain. The amplifier is turned up. We know many of the things that can turn up pain processing. And many of them are treatable!
- A variety of triggers can bring on the changes of fibromyalgia
- Triggers lead to biological imbalances that feed into the pain, fatigue, insomnia, brain fog, and other symptoms
- Altered Gut-Brain-Immune function can worsen fibromyalgia, and many chronic illnesses.
- Various lifestyle approaches can change the underlying biology of fibromyalgia and reduce symptoms.
- It’s crucial to focus on healing, and not just the disease.
- Aspects of healing include:
- mindbody relationships
- nutrition, diet, hormones, and gut health
- the right kind of physical treatments and exercise
- There are many tools that can help you heal.
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Dr Shiller’s Integrative Approach to Pain
Video Overview:
Things you should understand about chronic pain.
- Your pain processing system can be turned up or turned down like an amplifier. Learn what factors make the system more sensitive, and ways to turn down the volume.
- Secondary sources of pain can worsen suffering and disability. They are treatable, so understanding them is important. Some secondary sources of pain include:
- changes in neuromuscular function.
- change in the fascia and connective tissues of the body
- gut-brain-immune axis changes can increase pain, inflammation, anxiety/depression, and other chronic disease
- hormonal changes
- emotional distress worsens pain, which worsens emotional distress
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Dr Shiller’s Clinical Services
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Office Logistics:
Dr Shiller meets with patients in Jerusalem, Beit Shemesh, Gush Etzion as well as by telemedicine. Telemedicine appointments are available for people in New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Florida, Virginia, and Israel. Other international clients can be seen on a case-by case basis.
He sees patients in the Leumit clinic in Beit Shemesh on Bar Ilan. Contact the clinic directly if you are a Leumit patient. He does not work through the other Kupot or US insurance companies. Patients with private insurance often get reimbursement. Ask in advance for a visit summary.
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See more videos about Dr Shiller’s approach to difficult chronic problems. Click on the relevant link below:
Healing Pain When Drugs and Procedures Don’t Help
Fibromyalgia: Feeling Better and Healing The Roots
Optimal Recovery After Injury, Surgery or Severe Illness
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- Stress, Depression, and Anxiety
- Osteoarthritis
- Fatigue and Post-Covid Syndrome
- Persistent Postoperative pain
- Autoimmune Disease
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Why should you know about LDN for Pain and Auto-Immunity?
Why should everyone with chronic pain or autoimmune disease know about LDN (low dose naltrexone)?
Because for many people it helps them, even if they’ve “tried everything”. That doesn’t mean it’s for everyone. What I say doesn’t mean diddly if it doesn’t help you. But LDN is something that most people don’t know about. And it’s something that helps many many people.Stay open-minded, but not so open that your brain falls out.
Here’s a recent interview from the LDN radio show, that talks a bit about what is LDN and why it helps some people with chronic pain or autoimmune problems.If you want to find out whether LDN may be helpful for you, contact the office or click here for more information.
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Healing Neuropathy with LDN and Functional Medicine
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Full Transcript:
What Should We Learn From This?
- What is neuropathy and how is it related to chemotherapy?
- Why does conventional medicine have such a hard time helping it?
- What did we do with Barbara that helped her?
- What is the role of functional medicine in helping neuropathy?
What is neuropathy?
What Causes Neuropathy?
What Can We Do About Neuropathy?
What About Supplements and Nutrients For Neuropathy?
What Are Some of The Root Causes of Neuropathy?
Inflammation
Oxidative Stress
Mitochondrial Dysfunction
Please Understand This Crucial Point About Chronic Illness
Common Underlying Causes with Variable Expression
Functional Medicine–Find The Root Cause of Illness
How Did We Help This Patient?
What’s is LDN, and why did I prescribe it for her?
Healing Chronic Illness Is a Complex Process
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Mindfulness and Cancer Pain
Cancer Pain With No Apparent Solution
Mrs B is in her 60s and is fighting for her life. She has a second recurrence of metastatic breast cancer and was recently admitted to rehab after an episode of congestive heart failure and accumulation of fluid around her lungs. She is a determined person who is ready to smile despite her difficult circumstances. She is thin, weak, tired, and has a tube draining malignant fluid from her right lung.
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A Better Approach to Tendinitis and Heel or Foot Pain
When Therapy, Injections, and Surgery Don’t Help
Mrs J was in her 60s and came to see me complaining of pain in both heels. She had been an active woman, working full time, going to the gym to exercise 3-4 times per week. Prior to developing pain, she used to walk up and down from the 4th floor where she worked each day as an admininstrative assistant. Roughly 2 years prior to seeing me, she began having pain in her heels. She was seen by an orthopedic surgeon who diagnosed tendinitis in her achilles tendons. He prescribed an anti-inflammatory medication and she had physical therapy with stretching, ice, and ultrasound. She got better for awhile but the pain returned, worse than the first time. The surgeon did cortisone injections into her tendons. The pain improved for awhile and then recurred. Then the surgeon cut her achilles tendons to lengthen them, assuming (I suppose) that the problem was that they were too short! Not surprisingly, her pain didn’t really get better enough to allow her previous activity and function, despite several months of physical therapy.
Why Medicine Needs a New Perspective
I heard the history, and the surgeon’s diagnosis and treatment plan just didn’t add up.
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